Bela Gary

Now is NOT the time to remain silent. You can be kind, compassionate, AND spiritual, and still rebel. I choose to rebel with my words. We all need to speak up for the marginalized and oppressed. Speak against hate, bigotry, and inequality. Against a future where many could be deprived of their rights. I know […]

Will the End of Creativity Be the End of Humanity? Strong statement? Scary? Maybe. Creativity comes from a deep part of us; the subconscious, the intuitive self, the heart, the soul, God, the Universe…whatever words you want to use to describe where these creative flashes of inspiration come from. Creative expression has enlightened the world.

Why are we so afraid of the dark? As kids, we fear those dark corners. And sometimes, as we grow into adults, those dark corners continue to hold their power over us. I used to be afraid of the dark. Yes, as an adult. I couldn’t stand total darkness, being unable to see anything at

Do you believe in signs and synchronicities? I do! I know they are messages, perhaps from the Universe, my higher self, or something else mystical, magical, and unknown. I see them all the time. Sometimes they don’t make sense right away but then later I’ll have an “A-ha!” moment and it all comes together. I

Is it really that easy to let go of the past, to release pain? Just let it go, they say.“OK. Sure. I will!” “They” make it sound so easy, as if you could do it on command.“Let go of the past. Let go of the pain. Just let it go.” They chastise you for holding

Patience! Be patient!We aren’t all very patient sometimes. That’s one of my challenges. Yes, I say challenges. I hate the word weakness. I guess every positive thing does have a negative to balance it out. Strengths vs. weaknesses…Patience vs. impatience. Good vs. bad…Still, I will call them challenges. Right now, I’m impatient about many things.

I’ve been reflecting on many things… Mostly what’s happening right now. All the changes in my life happening. Right now. Some musings about the future, not necessarily with expectations, but with hope. Dreams that sometimes scare me. The fear is not about dying dreams. It’s about those coming true. What will I do? How much